Self-control

In all we do...
There is one fruit that represent us...
The 'doing'...
Our self-control....

Anger is dominating the world day by day...
We face angry people almost everyday in life...

People get angry for some reasons...
We may or may not know why...
But rather than allowing it to rule us...
We can do a lot better than raging in return...

We can just be in control of ourselves...

As what a good saying goes

"Self-control is the only way to survive in the world full of idiots."

Don't let anger control you, my friend...
Control anger and be nice to others...

We shouldn't let other people's foolish get into our nerves...
If we did,
We are in trouble...
Because then, we are the one out of control...

So be in control of yourself...
Tighten your self-control...

If someone accused you for something that you didn't do,
Just gently tell them the truth and walked away...
But do not even shout/ scream in defence...
Your voice/ tone/ word doesn't help you...
But rather,
Be positive and say it positively with a gentle tone...
They may not perceive you but at least, you have clear your part of...

But if you have done something wrong and someone screamed at you,
Just meekly apologised and correct it.
People who have conscious knew that you have repented will automatically stop nagging at you.
But if those nagging doesn't stop,
Remember,
It is NOT your fault...
It is the nagger's fault...
Because she was desperately looking for something to unleash her tongue...
Therefore do not worry...
One day she will get a slap on the face by someone who is much worst than herself...
Then she will learn to have self-control in all aspect...
But you do not have to respond rudely as revenge...
Just walk away and let nature take care of it for you...

Self-control....
You can do so much better just by smiling politely and swiftly walked off without much word.
You can also do a lot better with just a sense of gentleness...
So much so,
People who have sudden outburst will repent on their own shameful behaviour...
You don't have to tell them anything nor say the word...
Your action will do the job...

Be in self-control...
It worth so much the trouble...
And gain all the peace that your heart desires of a lifetime...
In fact,
It saves your life till the very end...